I first came across this story a few years back. As a tired, and at times struggling, lone parent, living in a small friendly village, despite being new in the area I made lots of friends pretty quickly.
A wide range of ages and backgrounds.

One day I came home to a handwritten note. In wobbly pencil, but all the words were written out perfectly.

It said this:

The mayonnaise jar and the coffee.

When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar and the coffee…

‘A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly, he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.

The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “yes.”

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.”

The golf balls are the important things-your God, family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions, things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house, and your car. The sand is everything else-the small stuff.

“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your partner out to dinner. Play another 18 holes. There will always be time to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first, the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.

One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented. The professor smiled. “I’m glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.” ‘
Author unknown

The gent who wrote the story out for me to read was a gentleman in his late 70’s. A lifelong bachelor, through choice he tells me. A man whose handsomeness still showed strong. A man who had no children or grandchildren, but a man who values friendships and family.

Along with the story, the letter told me that his kettle was always welcoming of visitors.

I would also like to tell you another thing about this gent, in his late 70’s this man’s strength and stamina was incredible and motivating. He ran marathons regularly and even took part in a 50-mile race each year.

The best bit; he only took up running when in his mid 50’s, when he retired.

Now if this isn’t inspirational, I don’t know what is.